I wonder if the wholesaler were to tell the story, if it would be delivered the same way?
Was this a case of the wholesaler making too much profit or you doing absolutely too little due diligence on the deal?
You said the wholesaler stuck firm to his price? Did he hold a gun to your head and make you sign the contract?
I usually approach the deal a little differently than the wholesaler in question.
When I ask my buyers how much they would pay I usually include my fee whether its 5k, 8k, 10k. They then calculate their purchase price with my fee in mind and its all good. And thats only with the cash buyers I know.
If I dont know you, I do my own analysis and give you the sale number with my fee factored in. If you cant pay that price and I cant negotiate any more on the purchase price then this is not the deal for us to do together...and its on to the next buyer.
Every deal is not for every buyer. Some of my cash buyers will pay more than others for a deal.
Wholesaling 101 - Leave enough meat on the bone for the end buyer.
Rehabber 101 - MAKE SURE there is enough meat on the bone.
If I were a rehabber I would say to a wholesaler "this is how much I can pay for this house with your fee included, whatever that is".
You really should not be counting the wholesalers money as long as you are making the profit you need to make.
I'm still trying to understand how you bought a home for too much money after seeing the house in person, factoring in your repair costs, holding costs, etc and the ARV?
At some point your deal analysis should have sounded the alarm...NO?
I feel bad that you cant find a good wholesaler to work with but i think you need to take some ownership for making a bad business decision and not using an out clause to cancel the contract.
Just for my own edification are you saying you NEVER bought a good deal from a wholesaler and that ALL wholesalers youve encountered have been bad wholesalers?