Branden, you are not as unique as you think. Many have started with help from a family member. Many have started with nothing or next to nothing. Many have started in California. You may be reading the posts or listening to podcasts looking for exactly your circumstances instead of looking for generalities that you can apply to your circumstances.
Write a description of the type of properties you want to look at. # of bedrooms. Sq. ft. Price.
Interview a few realtors. Select a realtor. Show the realtor your property description. The realtor will start sending you automatic emails when properties matching your criteria hit the MLS.
Walk into a bank and talk to their mortgage officer. Describe your situation. Find out what changes you can make (as you outlined in your question and possibly other things you haven't thought of) to put yourself in a better position. The loan officer will be more helpful and better able to give you more definite and correct answers for your exact situation. If you don't like the bank's answers, go to another bank, maybe a third.
Many BRRRRable houses are not on the MLS, many are too distressed to qualify for conventional financing. Do you know what 'driving for dollars' is?
Contact some hard money lenders in your area.
Attend investor meetups. meet people.
Read Bigger Pockets BRRRR book.