@Clayton Crawford
One thing that jumped out at me in your post:
You say you want to find a property to buy which you'll be able to cash-out-refi to recoup your down payment.
Have you let the broker know that is your goal? Because you say the broker keeps showing you turn-key properties. You'll never buy a turn-key property where you can immediately cash-out your down payment.
If that's your goal, you need to be focusing on fixer properties that need a considerable rehab.
This may simply be a case of the broker not understanding your goals. Either way, the broker has been more than patient, and has gone well beyond the call of duty if they've shown you 50-100 homes... Its definitely time to have a conversation with the broker to make sure you're both on the same page as far as what you're looking for.
PS: Also need to add - make sure YOU know what you're looking for, too! If your goal is to do the cash-out-refi, don't bother looking at or offering on turn-keys. Your broker is right that offering that low on a house in good condition is a waste of everyone's time.
PPS: Last point - your broker is also right that an informal phone call is just as good as (and sometimes better than!) a formal written offer if you're throwing out a low-ball.