Hi Senika,
I'm an ED nurse in the Bay Area and just wanted to tell you how very sorry I am to here about your daughter. Yet, I also wanted to tell you, even though I don't know you at all, how proud I am of you for picking yourself up and knowing what you needed to do in order to make yourself happy. I love what I do, but I can empathize with you about the stresses and demands that are put on nurses. I've been doing it for about 3 years now and already know that I don't think my mental capacity can handle the job for another 35 years! I just want you to know that your in my thoughts and I'll be pulling for you. I just got my first place under contract in the central valley where I grew up, and I'm using the income from my nursing gig as a means to and end. It's just a thought but the reality is we do pretty well as nurses up in the bay area and have flexibility of working 3, 12 hour shifts a week, which leaves us with a lot of room to work on our side hustle.
The great part is, if you ever run into a situation were you need a little extra cash, you can always pick up a per diem gig and make a little extra on the side to supplement your RE journey. I think the future is bright for you and your sisters, so go rock it!