Mason, congrats for stepping out of your comfort zone! I know it is difficult to step out side of your comfort zone but that is when you see real growth happen. Successful people live outside of their comfort zone because you can't get better if you are constantly scared of failing.
I used to be somewhat of an introvert myself and had a hard time talking with strangers. I think that is a normal feeling for most people, because it makes people feel UNCOMFORTABLE. However, in the RE business it is all about being a great communicator unless you are able to leverage another skill (general contracting, number crunching genius, etc) to give you an edge. For me, I can barely hold a hammer and still have to use a calculator to add up rents so I have no choice but to rely on my communication skills.
It's not easy by any means and I am far from a master communicator but I push myself everyday to step out of my comfort zone and TALK to people. The more I talk, the more comfortable I get and eventually I will have to find something else that makes me uncomfortable.
In terms of the RE side of things, I know it is tough to get started when you are young and it can feel like an overwhelming feat to buy your first property. But it's all about gaining confidence and getting that first deal under your belt. Once you get that first deal, you will have a repeatable template that will allow you to copy and paste each deal after that. That first deal will also get you over the hump and show you that it is not impossible.
I know that is fairly broad advice, so in the meantime I will give you some actionable steps in order to start making your way to being a RE investor:
-participate and ask questions in the forums
- go buy a RE related book and read it
- start reaching out to people in your area on BP to introduce yourself. Tell them who you are, what you are trying to do and ask them if there is anyway you can help them in their business.
There ya go, get after it! Feel free to message me if you got any other questions. I would love to chat with you.
-BA