@Stacy E. My heart goes out to you. You are in a difficult situation. I continue to be flabbergasted at the local politicians who pass all these tenant friendly laws creating mounds of paperwork with a myriad of details and are surprised by why there are more evictions. The current long drawn out detailed and tedious process causes tenants to delay until the point of no return. If they knew they had to do something now they would if the could. If they know they can't pay they move and it's over. Now with the long delays the likelihood they will arrive at the conclusion that they they need to act is drawn out to the point of no return (full blown eviction).
I certainly hope you did everything right (used the correct notices, etc.) because if you didn't it will cost you dearly. The laws are changing quickly here. One law (HB-1098) that just passed and was signed by the governor will impact you as well. It is called just cause eviction, where you now cannot evict a tenant that has not violated the lease. In other words you might not be done with the tenants at the end of their lease if they don't move on their own. Sorry for the bad news.
At any rate, how to care for yourself. First off - this is business and treat it as such. I realize they live in the same structure as you do so this is hard. Emotionally take a step back from it. Sure you need the money but if you can't afford the cost of doing business you need to get out of the business. I mean that with all sincerity. Sell your house and find another way to make money. Treating it as a business means that all communication with the tenants is business communication.
2nd - Stop texting them and contacting them about the rent they haven't and probably won't pay. Consider that money gone and look forward to what you need to do to get the next paying tenants in place.
3rd - write down your lessons as you learn them. What mistakes you made in screening and what policies you will put in place (in writing) so you don't make them again.
4th - figure out what the next step is and go through it as a dry run. In Denver, after the tenant has been served then there is a court date set. This is not really a court date in that if everyone shows up, they set the actual court date for the trial. The first date is held virtually. If the tenant doesn't show then you can win by default. If the tenant does show and there is an actual trial set, go to the court ahead of time and watch the process. Observe the judges and the people. Learn the process. Generally speaking, the court is very unfriendly to landlords.
5th - Offer them a get out of jail early card. Offer to let them move out and stop the eviction. Many tenants don't know that if they move out before the court rules against them, it stops the eviction and means they won't have one on their record. Put this in writing by offering the early move-out as a way for them to avoid the eviction. Email works if they use that. If not, a type written note you hand to them personally is best. I do not recommend text for this as it's not as formal and they may not consider it. Say something like, "Our court date is x and I have been considering the situation and wanted to present you a one time offer to avoid an eviction on your record. If you move out and return the unit and keys to be by 5 pm Friday then the eviction process with stop and you will not have an eviction on your record. This offer is good until 5 pm Monday." If they take this, your are money ahead as you can start getting a paying tenant in sooner. Note if they move you will want to be sure to send them an accounting of their security deposit within the required time. It will show them the money they owe you. If they don't pay, you can pursue them in small claims court.
6th - Let the process carry itself out. This happens. It is not the end of the world. Learn from it, do better next time and move on.