@Greg Weik as a local Denver investor I would strongly disagree with a couple of your opinions offered to @Melissa D..
Just because someone has experience doesn't mean that a local meetup would not be helpful. I have been investing for 20 plus years and have found a number of good connections at local meetups and here on the BP forums. The fact is, newbies or scammers are not the only ones that go to meetups and networking groups. My advise is to go and see for yourself. BP has local meetups posting as well as other networking sites. Check a few out and see what fits your style. Be aware that some meetups are really just marketing tools for those hosting them. Nothing inherently wrong with that but be sure that they add value to the attendees. My thinking is that there is always room to grow and learn and expand my network. As for where to start. I would start with those that have been around a long time and are larger in size. People won't attend if they don't find value.
I have purchased out of state property and my lesson is the same as it is locally. It always takes longer, costs more and has more challenges than I originally thought. I totally agree with the idea that local markets offer better value in the long run that cheaper out-of-state markets.
Finally, Just because an experienced property manager would not do a house hack or purchase a small multifamily property does not mean it would not be a good fit for you and your situation. I think the testimony of many on this web site would indicate there is great financial benefit from taking either of those approaches. Find what fits for you. I really don't think that "one size fits all" but the opposite is not true either, because one size does fit some. You have to find your size and wear it.