@Omar Cantu
In life, we need to know the difference between things we can change, versus things we can't. And then focus on those items that we can change.
With that in mind, you are correct in that if you had a student loan debt of 560 a month, nobody here would have an issue with it. But student loan debt is something you can not change, you are simply stuck with, in many cases not even filing for bankruptcy will make that debt go away. Meanwhile a car payment is something you can change simply by selling the car. See the difference?
Why are you so opposed to selling the car? Are you trying to impress someone? Because if the only reason a girl is interested in you is because you have a nice truck then you need to run away from that girl as fast as you possibly can. At 23 years old with a mediocre job, you can either spend your money and LOOK wealthy, or you can save that money and start to BECOME wealthy, but you can't do both at the same time.
This truck likely costs a lot more than 560 a month, I don't know what a 20yr old male with a 41k truck pays in insurance, but I would bet everything I own that you pay more in insurance per month than I do for my entire car payment. Not to mention gas, maintenance ect. I would assume that this vehicle costs you well over 800 per month once everything is included. You mentioned the possibility of selling this 41k truck that you have owned for a little over a year for 35k. So during that year, you have been making very large payments, and yet your car has DEPRECIATED and you have LOST $6,000 of net worth, let that sink in for a moment! You are trying to become an investor, and yet you pay 30% of your total income and in return you get the privilege of LOSING 6k worth of value!
You mentioned not wanting to take the easy way out....
WHY!!!!
There is nothing noble about doing things the hard way, and when it comes to making money, I guarantee that someone who plays it smart, will out earn someone who 'works hard' every single time. In the immortal words of Scrooge McDuck, Work smarter, not harder.
If you sell your car for 35k, and buy something outright for lets say 5,000 that would give you 11k left over once you repay the existing loan. That 11, plus the 7 you already have is 18k, which is very close to the 20-25k you would likely need for a down payment on a 100k house. Your debt to income ratio problem with the banks instantly vanishes, and your 800/month payment likely turns into closer to 100 since you own the car outright, and will likely just need liability + gas + minor maintenance. That 700/month savings will get you to your required 20-25k down payment in a matter of a couple of months.
In summary you can either work your tail off getting a second job, having little or no free time and ultimately save up the required amount of money in a couple of years, or you can sell the truck and immediately start looking for rental properties to buy as you would be ready to buy something in a matter of months and be well on your way to long term financial success.
The choice is yours.