I also would put CC debt and student loan debt into two separate categories. If you were really sticking to a zero based budget and saving $500-$1000/mo, the cc should not be an issue. Knock that out and don't look back.
As for the car part, I really think that's a common mistake, that you HAVE to have a new car for it to be reliable. I also have a commute so that my kids can live in a safe suburb with the best schools, but for the past 10 yrs I've driven a paid for in cash Honda Accord. It now has almost 200k miles on it, runs like a charm, and has cost me very little in the way of repairs beyond basic maintenance.
Most first time home buyer options I *believe* require you to actually occupy the property.
Also, start small, you can always add things later. My husband and I have lived/held/flipped 3 properties over the last 8 yrs without any of the business materials. Just word of mouth. Even as we start out doing this more as a career, we don't even plan on getting business cards.
And just something else I'm going to throw out there, does your boyfriend stand behind you? I'd make sure he's fully committed to standing behind you on it and support you.
One last thing, if you go the flipping route, do you have contractors in mind? I won't say that I've never been treated differently even in a Lowes picking out tile because I was female. Its stupid and sucks, but its a reality.