My agent is my dad so I basically did all the negotiation, paperwork, and communications. It is my first purchase and I'm so stressed. I sent an email explaining everything and hopefully the seller will extend it for me. This is what I wrote, I hope it works:
I am sorry for the delays. The underwriting from my lender was very extreme. They were asking for so many documentation and digging into everything. I finally got that cleared up last week and the only last thing is this appraisal. I showed up for it to ensure they showed up. I've worked so hard to get everything for my lender to keep this moving. The report will be submitted by Friday, then I have a 3 business day waiting period to review it due to the CFPB regulation. Can you please sign for closing on 2/5/16? It is only 5 more business days. My lender is out of state so they have to go with the appraisal companies that are available. If it is their own company and local they would be able to push it faster but they can't when using a 3rd party.
Please let me know what you need from me to go forward. I am a first time buyer and this is my first property and I spent so much money on it already. The appraisal is $640, the survey was $550, inspection was $300, option $200, earnest $1000. I had my dad renew his HAR license and I paid $600 for that. If I lose this I am losing everything. Can you do it for me this one last time? I would appreciate it so much.
Here is the latest update from appraiser:
1/27/16aa to client: appraiser stated the best ETA at this moment is 1/29 EOB.