Anton, you are correct that putting all your eggs in one basket is not the smartest choice but I think Jerry is obviously a very sharp individual and knows that, or that the entrepreneurial spirit in him that risked alot and grew his business into a successful company is something that motivates him. Either way, I congratulate him on his success and respect his decision to get in to real estate.
My comments were directed to say that 1) I know of very few good quality syndications that will meet his objectives, and 2) smaller projects, while they might be easier to "get your hands around" take a lot more daily interaction and are less efficient to be able to use quality third party management and professional advisors.
With 2 million in equity, he can get non-recourse financing (minimal net worth requirements), and buy a very solid stable B+ or better deal in good solid markets, (maybe not Dallas or Denver) that with good management and some good advisors, he can probably be very successful. Jerry, Anton is correct that finding 12%+ CoC deals is going to take some real work and you should really find someone you can trust to help you.
Best to all.