4 Ridiculous Real Estate Seller Sayings

Volatile emotions give rise to a few seller sayings that seem simply silly when seen in the right light. Here are some examples, along with insights to help you ensure you don’t let them confuse your home selling decisions.

1. We need to find buyers who understand our tastes. There are certainly occasions where there is truly a narrow niche of buyers that will have to find, understand and appreciate a particular house. In cases like this, with acreage, converted garages, horse properties, etc, this saying is not ridiculous at all. But this saying is absolutely ridiculous when it is said by the homeowner with potentially wide appeal as a reason for not staging or preparing their home for sale, or in the effort to avoid neutralizing highly and de-personalizing their design and decor choices. When it comes to buying Dallas foreclosure property, however, these things are not an issue because you get, what you get when looking for a great home value.

If your home has been sitting on the market while the others are selling and your agent has suggested that you tone down the bright orange paint job or delete the forest mural on your dining room wall, think about how much time and money your decision to wait for the buyer who understands these design choices is really costing you.

2. But I spent a lot or years or a lot of money on that. The ability to customize your home to your personal tastes and your family’s wants and needs is one of the biggest benefits of home ownership. Owners are encouraged to make changes to their homes that will improve their quality of life while they live there, rather than focusing on whether they will be able to recoup their investment when they sell it 15 years down the road. Not only were they not willing to pay a premium for it, they planned to rip it out and replace it with low-maintenance, low maintenance landscaping.

Give it up. When it comes to selling DFW real estate understand that other than the kitchen, bathroom, amenity and decor upgrades that appeal to many home buyers, if you have invested your time and money in customizations and upgrades for your personal enjoyment, then your enjoyment is the return on your investment. If your home’s eventual buyer also happens to love them, fantastic! But don’t approach the home selling process expecting every buyer to share your value system and pay through the nose for them. If you do, in just a few month you may find yourself selling your house to one of those we buy houses companies and selling at a discount.

3. I want to price it high, so I have room to negotiates and come down. When the market is slow enough that buyers are routinely paying below asking for homes, pricing your home above market value is actually dangerous. You run the risk of causing no one to even come look at your home as a good enough value to see it in the first place.

If other home sellers are pricing appropriately and yours is priced too high over many buyers won’t even bother trying to negotiate you down. They will simply go find one of the homes on the market with a more realistic price, they’ll wait until you lower the price or they’ll wait until your home has been lagging so long they sense you might be a motivated seller. Even in a strong market like we are in today the aggressively priced homes get the most buyer traffic and get the most offers. This causes bidding wars and drives the sales price higher. Overpricing it might actually sabotage your success.

4. That offer is an insult - I will just reject it. Your home is very personal to you. It represents a large investment of your money, time, memories and dreams. But once it’s on the market, grow some thick skin and decide not to take anything personally, it’s just business at this point. If a buyer offers to pay so many thousands of dollars for your home, it’s not an insult, even if the offer is far lower from what you are willing to sell the house for. They might be uneducated or misguided and not yet experienced enough in the market to know that their offer was unreasonable. Or they might just love your home and be going all out to get it, even though it’s really outside of their scope of affordability. Also, they may be just trying to get you to come down some on the price.

You should always respond to any offer made by a qualified buyer. If you have another offer or offers that are more realistic, just respond with a nice decline to accept. If you have no other offers, respond with what you and your agent agree is an appropriate counter. You might be surprised at how even a very low offer can come together with a respectful, reality based counteroffer and a little negotiating.