5 Things That You Should Quit In 2020

The are many good things that you just can't quit on, but some of the things that we do, we must quit, otherwise, we are not going to accomplish the good things that we need to reach. We are talking about huge psychological things here and you already know that 99,9% of your life results come from our thoughts and actions that are led by those thoughts. So, in that case, you can either empower yourself or dis-empower yourself depending on what you say and do. Follow these 5 steps by quitting on them right now and it will become so much easier for you to reach your goals as there will be less friction in your life, more freedom and more room for success.

1. Trying to please everyone.

Why are you doing the things you do? Is it because of your deep-rooted mission or reasons or you just trying to please everyone? The signs that you may be a people-pleaser is when you pretend to agree with everyone, you may find yourself apologizing often, you just can't say no to people, you feel uncomfortable when someone is angry at you, you act the same as people around you, you don't admit when your feelings are hurt...you see, all these things will dis-empower you quicker than you think and that's is why you need to stand your ground and know your worth, you don't need to please everyone.

2. Fearing change.

Whatever the life situation you are in right now, understand that your current chapter is not your book, life is a cyclical, not a static thing, while situations and things come and go in our lives. So don't be fixated on your current page, finish it and start writing your new chapter. Next, you know and everyone else knows that they are not perfect and you know that about yourself too right, but you have to embrace that, let that thought of, "I am not perfect, but no one else is as well", at the same time don't settle for good when you can be great. Acknowledge it, but become better. You may be uncertain about the things that are ahead of you, but mistakes and failures are just part of the game of life and still, you don't want to gamble, learn from other people's mistakes as much as you can, so you could avoid yours going forward. You can't control other people and their actions, but can always control yours, as there is a great quote, "If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change".

3. Living in the past.

If you always look at your rearview mirror you can't focus on the windshield and the great things that are ahead of you. The past is past, there is only a future left for you, but staying in the past means that there could be no future. We grow and we learn, we go through life making mistakes and we can always find someone who made the more of them then us and maybe that will make us feel better, or we can look up at the people who made through the toughest and darkest times in their lives and get some inspiration and belief that is is possible for us as well.

4. Putting yourself down.

You are able to achieve great things, how do I know that? Because everyone can. Do you know where is the place where all the biggest dreams, desires and goals are? It is the graveyard. Sadly enough, most of the people choose to take their potential with them, instead of expressing it to the world, I mean there probably was some of the great geniuses of their time that no one knew about them because they doubted themselves so much, or they knew they were able, but the lack of belief and the lack of actions stopped them from achieving their personal greatness. So, make a list of things that you like about yourself at this current time, start your day with positive talk and affirmations, stop comparing yourself with others and forgive yourself for your mistakes and move forward.

5. Overthinking.

Is it going to work? Should I do it? What he/she is going to say?...All the things that we say to ourselves that make us overthink, rather than just taking action and doing it. Think about what will go right, not what can go wrong, you probably have some big scary picture in your mind when you need to do something out of your comfort zone and you need to get rid of that picture, just simply, shrink it, did that just made you feel better? Magic, right? There are more strategies and techniques that I can show you to overcome these types of challenges as well. Don't be a perfectionist, it will be super hard for you to start something if every time you will depend on the good weather, other people time and effort, your good financial situation, magical star alignment, and your great mood to come in one place for you to do those things, just do it, as Nike says. You can't predict the future, but you can hope and expect the best of it and the worst of it will be a great life experience that later in life will be much more valuable than any university or college degree.

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