Landlord tenant dispute, need advice

[Marilyn Rogers]

Hi guys, not sure if this is the correct place to post this but I’m going to try because I’m truly upset and just want some clear facts. I’m a tenant in va. I have no lease because the landlord is a old “friend”. Iv been where I live for two years. I keep to myself and I’m friendlier than all my other roommates put together, but that’s neither here nor there. I pay on time and do my best to keep up with chores. There are 4 other tenants and no one has ever been assigned any chores specifically. So lately, when my landlord is in town, and staying at the premise she decides to target me and demand I do chores, specifically take out a communal trash bin. I ignored this request yesterday because frankly it was unfair, she treats the other house mates differently and allows them to be negligent but for whatever reason she puts pressure on me. Anyways, today she sent me a written letter saying that it was my second warning, that if i didn’t start taking out the communal bathroom trash for everyone, that it was grounds for eviction and she would proceed with that if I don’t follow instructions. She also proceeded to speak negatively of my character and demeanor. I’m sure this all sounds as crazy and petty to you guys as it does to me, but I’m an honest person and I appreciate feedback. My intention is to send a email saying I will no longer use that trashcan so I’m not part of the madness (but it’s mostly because my other two roommates aren’t interested in being in the rotation and she allows that). She had also complained when I have left an empty Amazon box here or there but again, I’m trying my best and it’s incredible what the other tenants can do with nothing said. Just want to know if she could truly evict for that? or should I just send my diplomatic email and rest easy. Also, I’m planning on moving in no more than 3 months, and she’s aware so I’m not sure why she wants to be so dramatic, I suspect some emotional issues. Having a woman to woman adult conversation would likely not work with her as many of her assertions aren’t accurate and she will not back down from them.

Thanks to anyone who can shed light. I’m truly someone who cares and aims to be a decent, honest roommate, but I can’t help but feel like I’m being singled out and I’m not going to just keep entertaining the abuse. Sorry if this entry to the forum is a little petty, but yeah I just want guidance. Thanks again.