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How to buy Grandmas properties?!?!?
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Hey @Jason Glenn. I'm not a huge fan of buying from family. There's an unavoidable conflict of interest: Grandma should be trying to get top dollar, while you are looking for the best deal you can get. Not only that, but if you've got cousins you can expect to hear how you "stole" those great properties out from under from their favorite Grandma, regardless of the sale price. Not worth the hassle.
Rather than buying Grandma's properties, you might consider helping her sell in a way that can give her everything she wants. Use this as an opportunity to flex your deal-structuring muscles. For example, you might get her under contract (to establish your interest as a principal in the deal) and then attempt to wholesale the properties as a package. If the sale proceeds have to last the rest of her life, she'll want to make absolutely certain she's exploring all her options (not just the ones that work better for you).
Also, be mindful that Grandma is going to need serious taxation, asset protection, and estate advice, at very least. So, help a granny out and make sure she's got a team of competent and attentive advisors!