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Chou Yang
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To rent or not to rent?

Chou Yang
  • Oshkosh, Wisconsin house
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I know you shouldn't rent to friends and families but has anyone had any success stories? I have a friend, has a good job/income and by qualifies with our standards. Just wondering if anyone had any positive experiences with it. Thanks.

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Kim Meredith Hampton
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  • St Petersburg
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Kim Meredith Hampton
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  • St Petersburg
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@Chou Yang I know it sounds good, but a really bad idea. Here's a blog I wrote on this very matter;

We love our family and friends, but beware of them becoming your tenants. It’s always a good idea to treat your rental property like a business. Treating family or friends just like you would any other tenant regardless of your relationship is just good business. Its important to seperate business and personal relationships, and sometimes I think this is what gets lost in translation when it comes to family or friends.

Here are some things that I’ve seen regarding this type of rental:

  • ● The owner never seems to want to run a background check
  • ● they never want them to pay a deposit
  • ● they want to give them “free rent” or a huge discount while they look for a job
  • ● Family or friends become or seem entitled to special requests and take

    advantage

  • ● Friends or family may hesitate to tell you about maintenance issues because you

    gave them a break

  • ● They make you feel guilty when you ask for a late fee
  • ● When the property gets damaged, you dont feel comfortable asking for money to

    make repairs

  • ● Lastly you may have to evict a friend or family member. This is when really go

    south.

    Protecting yourself from a business standpoint is still number one, no matter who you rent to. 

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