Fueding Neighbors: how to stop playing Referee

[Michele Fischer]

Neighbors in one of our duplexes are not getting along. I know we need to get ourselves out of managing their conflicts, but I'm looking for some practical advice on how to do it.

- Early in the relationship what do you do to make it clear that they need to get along with their neighbors and not involve the landlord in squabbles?

- When conflict happens and they drag the landlord in, how do you deflect it back to them?

Thanks for any words of wisdom!