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Updated over 3 years ago on . Most recent reply

What to look for in a Lender
I'm very new to real estate investing and am hoping to do my first deal (ideally a tri-plex or quad-plex house-hack) in around 6-9 months. I'm still firmly in the education phase, but this seems like a good starting point for me. I have a small chunk of liquid cash, and pending the outcome of this deal, have an offer of private money for a second deal, which I'd like to put around 6 months after the first.
I recently mentioned my interest to a friend who has moved into conventional lending (primarily ag-related). He is interested in moving into real-estate lending and has offered to set a meeting between him, me, and a more seasoned real-estate lender he associates with. My question for the forum is what sort of questions should I be asking? As I said, I'm new to this and still learning, but what are the valuable topics I might learn from this lender? Also, what sort of questions will help me to make a firm connection with the lender so that I'll have that connection available in the future?
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You shouldn't have to worry about being the leader in the conversation. What you're looking for is someone who will walk you through their process to build a profile for you and understand your situation. Then they take that understanding, use their knowledge gained from experience, and put it all together into a plan that works for you. If you have to bring that much leadership to the table when working with a loan officer you've found the wrong person.
So, long story short you're looking at this the wrong way. You're thinking of how you can "connect" with a lender and instead you should be testing them to see how well they connect with you. You are the customer, you have the power not them. Act like it, and don't work with someone just because your buddy, who's new at this, says it's a good idea. Your buddy might not know anything about what a good idea is for you when it comes to financial moves.
Also, don't be afraid to shop around and talk to multiple loan officers. Those different conversations will lead to different perspectives and the loan officers will not all have access to the same products. Find a good local mortgage broker to speak with who has access to many products and they will usually get you a better deal with less closing costs.