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Private Lenders Keep Reaching Out To Me, Are They Legit?
How do you know who is legit and who isn't?
And if it is a scam, what are they gaining?
I've probably had at least ten private lending companies reach out to me through LinkedIn and I never know if it's real or not...
Up until recently I have only done conventional loans, but I'm on my fourth and it is getting increasingly more difficult to obtain a conventional loan.
Any advice or lenders you recommend?
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Stay of the web when looking for money, @Brittany Vigneault. LinkedIn, Facebook, Connected Investors, Craigslist, and the like are cesspools of scammers. These scoundrels will disappear after asking you to pay up-front fees. They will also request your personal financial information and steal your identity. You don’t borrow money like this anonymously. Non-conventional money is best borrowed through relationships.
There are a ton of legitimate lenders out there and he safest way to develop a relationship is face-to-face. Local real estate clubs are the easiest way to find the greatest concentration of serious lenders.
This is a list of some real estate clubs near Charlotte, NC from Meetup.com. With the amount of money floating around now, it would be hard to toss a rock into any of these and not hit a legitimate lender with whom you can have a real conversation. If you don’t know what to ask, you can find a list of informed questions in this post: Private Money Lender – How to Qualify the Lender .