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Updated over 12 years ago on . Most recent reply
Private Money: transfer money to me or transfer money to title company?
Greetings all,
I'm doing my first private money deal and need some advice.
I've located an investor who is willing to do a generic promissory note so I can purchase an investment property.
However, b/c the property I'm purchasing is a REO property, the bank requires proof of funds. I've submitted his bank account statement and a copy of our promissory note that we wish to sign at the closing table, but listing agent wasn't exactly enthused about the idea.
The reason I did it this is b/c I wanted my private money investor to know that I never have direct access to his capital and we're doing the transaction exactly like a bank closes a deal, where the borrower never has direct access to the money and the title company is the third party handling the transaction.
So... am I completely in the wrong here? Or is it customary in private money deals that the private money lender and I complete the promissory note prior to the closing table so the proof of funds is in my name?
Any advice is much appreciated.
- Matt
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Originally posted by Matt C:
The funds are a lock and we're already agreed upon the promissory note, we simply haven't executed the promissory note at this time.
As others have said, if you don't have discretion over the funds (in an account in your name), it's not a cash transaction...
While you say the funds "are a lock," that's not true. What happens if your lender changes his mind? What if he decides you're not a good credit risk? What if a better deal comes along for him? What if his brother gets thrown in jail and he needs the money to bail him out? There are lots of reasons why a private lender may tell you that he'll fund the loan, but then ultimately not fund the loan. Until the paperwork is completed and the funds are wired, they are not "a lock."
Now, if this is one of those rare situations where the funds really are "a lock," my suggestion would be to write the contract as a cash deal, offer earnest money for the full amount and then have your lender wire the funds into escrow until it closes. He may require you to pay interest for the extra time the funds are tied up, but since the funds in that case would truly be "a lock," it can be treated as a cash transaction, even if the cash is not your own.
Otherwise, I would recommend writing a financed offer with no financing contingency and a large earnest money deposit (at least 10% and preferably 20%+). From a seller's perspective, this is as close to a cash deal as you can come, and they'll probably be fine with whatever proof of funds you have.