Skip to content
×
PRO
Pro Members Get Full Access!
Get off the sidelines and take action in real estate investing with BiggerPockets Pro. Our comprehensive suite of tools and resources minimize mistakes, support informed decisions, and propel you to success.
Advanced networking features
Market and Deal Finder tools
Property analysis calculators
Landlord Command Center
$0
TODAY
$69.00/month when billed monthly.
$32.50/month when billed annually.
7 day free trial. Cancel anytime
Already a Pro Member? Sign in here

Join Over 3 Million Real Estate Investors

Create a free BiggerPockets account to comment, participate, and connect with over 3 million real estate investors.
Use your real name
By signing up, you indicate that you agree to the BiggerPockets Terms & Conditions.
The community here is like my own little personal real estate army that I can depend upon to help me through ANY problems I come across.
General Real Estate Investing
All Forum Categories
Followed Discussions
Followed Categories
Followed People
Followed Locations
Market News & Data
General Info
Real Estate Strategies
Landlording & Rental Properties
Real Estate Professionals
Financial, Tax, & Legal
Real Estate Classifieds
Reviews & Feedback

Updated over 2 years ago,

User Stats

5,450
Posts
13,747
Votes
Jim K.#3 Investor Mindset Contributor
  • Handyman
  • Pittsburgh, PA
13,747
Votes |
5,450
Posts

To the lurkers: How to weed out landlord dreamers in the forums

Jim K.#3 Investor Mindset Contributor
  • Handyman
  • Pittsburgh, PA
Posted

Gentle lurkers,

If you've been lurking around here in the forums long enough, you learn that there is a clear distinction between those people who post things from a place of knowledge and experience, and those people who post things from Fantasy Island, where they are capable landlords with long histories of property ownership behind them. Because Bigger Pockets doesn't engage in verification, anyone can say anything about who they are and what they do, and live their aspirational fantasies out in full here. This becomes a problem when someone who is starting out actually needs actionable advice to get things actually done in the real world. Who should you take advice from?

So I would suggest that when tracking anyone's posts and wondering if what they say will hold water any better than a rusting pipe, you consider the following statement.

-----------------------

At least 50% of my work happens in the gap between statements like:

"Someone told me these guys can get it done..."
"I think these are the right people to call..."
"A simple phone call should be enough..."
"Hey, just call them, how hard can it be?"

and the actual completion of anything

-----------------------

One of the sure signs of a landlord dreamer in real estate, whose advice comes fresh off the heights of BS Mountain, is the persistent inability to offer anything cogent on what happens AFTER your phone stops ringing on an initial call. What happens in face-to-face relationships. What happens in complicated personality conflicts: over services, over rent payments, in rooms sitting across from men and women who wear judicial robes. All of this is a huge part of property management, and any "expert" who minimizes it or, worse, act as if it doesn't exist, just doesn't know what they're talking about.

Hope this helps. If you disagree, by all means, let me know why.

Loading replies...