2nd won't allow Seller to get relocation funds that 1st approved

[Steve L.]

I have a California short-sale approved.  

The Sellers owes $550k on the 1st.  $150k on the 2nd.

The first approved an offer around market value (around $300,000) and $5,000 in relocation funds and $4,000 to the 2nd.

The second says they will approve the amount but they will not allow $5,000 in relocation funds and wants the 1st lender to remove that option.

Does anyone have any experience with this or suggestions?  The Seller needs the relocation funds.