Loan cost provisions/seller credits to give or not to give

[Leland James]

So I got an offer to purchase my property and I’m a little bit confused, in the offer they are requesting that I the seller pay for all of the lender related fees and buy her share of escrow fees I would like to submit a counter offer stating that I don’t want to pay for any of the buyers closing costs. I’m not that experienced on this matter so any explanations or advice would be much appreciated they are making a great offer other than this thank you for your response and help