Trouble finding a property to qualify BRRRR

[Jose G Delvalle Bueno]

I am having some trouble finding a property for BRRRR. I have been looking in the Bridgeport or New Haven area of CT. I have mainly been looking at multi family units that are distressed and owned by banks. Every property I find that makes sense I have submitted an offer, but I always get overbid by another investor, even when offering up to 35% over asking price. Has anyone experienced something similar?  I was also considering using a wholesaler, wondering if anyone has worked with wholesalers and been successful. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance.