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Updated almost 7 years ago, 12/29/2017

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Brian Hall
  • portland, OR
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Help me help my parents retire.

Brian Hall
  • portland, OR
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Ok so. Hi I'm Brian. I'm new. I buy turnkey properties (don't diss me I have a solid day-job). 

This is my first post, and a rather vulnerable one at that, so forgive me in advance.

My parents will both be "retiring" within 6 months. I'm considering doing business with them. They have about 200k to invest and the returns we can get them with that money would help them land safely and actually retire vs worry about money indefinitely. (Yay/scary).

My wife and I are not seasoned investors although we can be very fastidious. We have 4 doors and have never invested with anyone else. We are entrepreneurs, so we have a certain degree of intangible insight through the hard knocks of starting/running businesses. This is certainly part of what causes us pause. LOTS at risk here...

My dad wants to crush it and make money in real estate, my Mom has trust issues and is feeling VERY cautious. She trusts us, but ways we can mitigate risk for them will probably be really good. 

Our plan would be to go in with them maybe even 50/50. 200k/200k. Slowly buying 8-12 single family units in linear markets in the midwest, keeping a healthy cash reserve, and coming up with a distribution schedule that is very conservative, one that can allow my parents to live comfortably. It feels like it would need to be iliquid, just distribute and don't touch the properties for 27.5 years or when they both die, but quite frankly Amy and I would love to be able to move money/re-fi/etc if/when needed. So here's my questions. 

1. How do you keep it clean and make sure everyone's interests and expectations are managed?

2. Are there vendors out there who would work hourly to help manage the accounting on something like this? I don't want to bury my wife in paper-work. We have two very young kiddos and all the real estate is hard on her. 

3. As an after-thought, what are the pros and cons of just holding their money and promising them an 8% return? This would be cutthroat in one regard as it would screw my sister as the properties would be in our name and build much more wealth for us vs my parents. I don't want to deal with family drama I don't like family drama. But then I also want to make this thing really cozy for my mother.

4. You think I'm a fool to even think about doing this at all? Danger danger Will Robinson? 

I am truly grateful for your input. Much love from PDX. 

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