DUAL AGENCY not disclosed, pressuring 200k over asking with seller financing

DUAL AGENCY not disclosed, pressuring 200k over asking with seller financing

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I'd like your opinion on a matter.  Myself and 2 of my business partners/friends are first time home buyers looking to purchase in a hot market in CA.  There is a house we like and offers were due yesterday.  List price is 998k but agent is insisting and wrote paperwork for us to sign for a purchase price of 1.2 million.  They said they need this price to be "competitive, though i personally don't agree with offering that much over asking.  I was at work yesterday and I was being pressured to sign the contract as offers were due yesterday and I randomly asked if they were also representing the seller and they said yes.  It's 2 co-agents and I was pretty upset and said that should have been disclosed.  Though offers were due yesterday they have extended it for us and are doing everything in their power to get us to sign.  They've promised my friend (who loves the house and isn't smart financially imo) that they can get us seller financing with no money down (with either a program or getting the seller to agree) but everything seems fishy to me.  In the contract they were trying to get us to rush to sign all contingencies were waived except a 7 loan contingency.  I of course pointed this out.  They said they have other offers, some above asking (which I don't deny given the market and us being in the Bay Area).  My questions are

1.  Are they simply trying to get us to buy so they get double commission

2. If there is a loan contingency but we use seller financing, what happens if we don't agree  to the terms of the presented loan? Will we be out of any money

3. dual agency seems like a terrible idea, pros and cons

4. Offers were due yesterday but they're still going back and forth with me and editing the contract in an attempt for us to comply. why?  There has to be other offers that are above asking with bigger downpayments

5. Does seller financing benefit the seller?  Taxes? getting the house back if anything goes wrong? 


I asked about the terms of seller financing but they said we'd be to sign an offer to present a written offer to the seller first who knows nothing about seller financing but they are confident that they can convince them.  Is that correct?  The loan contingency is 7 days.  What happens if this isn't figured out in 7 days of signing? Do I lose the earnest money?  

Personally this has red flag all over it and I won't be rushed into signing anything  We ended up viewing the house 2 days before offers were due.  What are their motivations?  Anything wrong of illegal here.  This is a very simplified summary by the way there is so much more I can write.  Even after a heated text thread of me laying out all of my concerns and them saying we should pass on the house (after I pretty much told them I don't want the house), they still came back saying they added a loan and appraisal contingency and if we are okay to sign. WHY?

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Lender · Washington DC · Member since 2015 · 2k+ posts · 2k+ votes
2y

Three "friends" walk into a 2 bed listing and are buying owner occupied. Well that's going to take some creative 'splaining Lucy if you want a jumbo loan. 

Illegal third bedroom means with a conventional appraisal it might need to be ripped out to close or have zero value. Is seller willing to get it grandfathered into compliance? I think the answer is no.

You do not have a pre-approved loan. You need a written commitment letter with the rate, terms, list of conditions needed to clear to close. 

Listing agents want you to offer very high. Maybe this will get the seller to play but you have nothing, only sand.

Give me the address in DM I can find three comparables in minutes. Listing agent should have given you the comps. If there are no comps you cannot get a loan. 

Seller is going to carry paper... cough... but you have no idea if the house is free and clear? Listing agent can give you title report. Your purchase offer should state the terms and conditions YOU want for the loan. Offer them 30 year loan fixed rate at 7% no points (you said 100% financing but really what seller is going to do that soooo risky but go ahead put it in the offer and let them counter). Have the loan be due and payable in seven years, this gives you time to figure out IF you can refinance or sell.

What is the agreement between the three of you as owners and buyers? Who gets the master bedroom who pays for what what happens if you lose your jobs what if you three divorce... who buys the toilet paper (be nitty gritty). You can't use a LLC for conventional owner occupied. Jumbo loans are picky about income and credit you must be financially strong.

You can always write an offer on yellow notepad paper and not be represented by an agent. Make bullet points, follow a Real Estate purchase contract but don't use the form as you are not experts. Everyone signs and dates. The title company/escrow settlement can type the contracts. Yellow note pad hand written holds in court and indicates you are not experts and this is important.

HAPPY to recommend a local agent. I'm in Moss Beach today and San Rafael tomorrow, stop by and chat. The three of you need to all be clear about your plan.

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  • Investor · Las Vegas, NV · Member since 2013 · 8k+ posts · 10k+ votes
    3y

    Only offer what you think it’s worth. If you truly think they are motivated to earn double commissions then offer $50k over asking, or less. If commissions are their motivation they’ll push your offer on the seller over other offers…

    Always include an inspection contingency and you’ll probably need a longer loan contingency. (Are you pre-approved, not pre-qualified?) ask your lender how long they need. AND an appraisal contingency, what if it’s worth less than asking?

    OBVIOUSLY if the offer “deadline” passed and they’re still willing to accept your offer either there were no other offers or none that the seller would accept. They may have told the seller they would lost it low and then a bidding war would insure, except it didn’t. 

    I would probably offer at or near list, heck maybe less if it’s been on the market more than 15-20 days. Lots of sales are falling through when interest rates climb during the inspection/offer period. 

    If you don’t get this deal I think I’d find a new realtor, you two have just gotten off on the wrong foot, especially if they didn’t have you sign a “dual agency” form. 

    Ps. Pretty sure BP has an agent referral option and you could even try reaching out to David Greene from the podcasts, he runs a broker or two in California.  

  • Russell BrazilBusiness Member
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    Real Estate Agent · Washington, D.C. · Member since 2012 · 17k+ posts · 30k+ votes
    3y

    If they are your agent, they will not make any more or less money if you buy this house. They will make X dollars from selling this house, then they will make Y dollars from whatever house you buy, whether its this one or another one. It is a zero sum game when one of your own buyers buys one of your listings.

  • Member since 2023 · 24 posts · 1 vote
    2y
    Quote from @Bill B.:

    Only offer what you think it’s worth. If you truly think they are motivated to earn double commissions then offer $50k over asking, or less. If commissions are their motivation they’ll push your offer on the seller over other offers…

    Always include an inspection contingency and you’ll probably need a longer loan contingency. (Are you pre-approved, not pre-qualified?) ask your lender how long they need. AND an appraisal contingency, what if it’s worth less than asking?

    OBVIOUSLY if the offer “deadline” passed and they’re still willing to accept your offer either there were no other offers or none that the seller would accept. They may have told the seller they would lost it low and then a bidding war would insure, except it didn’t. 

    I would probably offer at or near list, heck maybe less if it’s been on the market more than 15-20 days. Lots of sales are falling through when interest rates climb during the inspection/offer period. 

    If you don’t get this deal I think I’d find a new realtor, you two have just gotten off on the wrong foot, especially if they didn’t have you sign a “dual agency” form. 

    Ps. Pretty sure BP has an agent referral option and you could even try reaching out to David Greene from the podcasts, he runs a broker or two in California.  


     Given the area I think it can very well sell for over 1 mil. Would I be willing to spend 1.2 million in a 2b/2b house? Absolutely not. Despite the claim of other offers it seems to me that if we were to agree and sign that our offer would be accepted, that’s simply the impression I have. 

    After the heated back and forth one of the agents said “counter offers are coming out soon and it’ll be 1.125 mil. That’s what I’ll accept”. Thoughts? Does that make sense? I’m just trying to understand the motivation or benefits to either the seller or agent. 

    Even after that back and forth the co-agent texted an hour following stating that she added the appraisal contingency and that if we were ready to sign. They also are the sellers agent. If they have better offers why would they be so adamant about us moving forward? Much higher than other offers? Idk.

    Does anyone know how sellers financing would play in this situation? They say they need us to sign first then they’ll present the offer of seller financing to the seller. But wouldn’t they have had that discussion already? Esp with other offers?

    We got w pre approval certificate from the agents themselves/perhaps the lender they work with. The pre approval is for the exact amount of 1.2 mil and I’m even surprised we got that bc I sent over very minimal information. 

    This is an agent my friend met at the listing who sold her the promise of getting her the home. At what cost? That’s what I’m trying to figure out.


  • Investor · Las Vegas, NV · Member since 2013 · 8k+ posts · 10k+ votes
    2y

    Why wouldn’t you offer $1.130M, be the highest offer and save $70k?

    There is zero chance I would be getting prequalified with a real estate agent, do they own a bank? What’s the interest rate? How long’s the loan? Talk to a real mortgage broker. Ask for the federal NMLS of their lender.

    This sounds really shady. Did they give you an estimate of your payments and did that number sound acceptable? (what if it’s a 5 year arm at 12% interest with 20% down?)

  • Member since 2023 · 24 posts · 1 vote
    2y
    Quote from @Russell Brazil:

    If they are your agent, they will not make any more or less money if you buy this house. They will make X dollars from selling this house, then they will make Y dollars from whatever house you buy, whether it’s this one or another one. It is a zero sum game when one of your own buyers buys one of your listings.

    They are the sellers agent who decided to represent us as buyers for this particular house. Met them at listing. If we don’t go with this house then we may or may not move forward with them. But noted, thankyou 
  • Member since 2023 · 24 posts · 1 vote
    2y
    Quote from @Bill B.:

    Why wouldn’t you offer $1.130M, be the highest offer and save $70k?

    There is zero chance I would be getting prequalified with a real estate agent, do they own a bank? What’s the interest rate? How long’s the loan? Talk to a real mortgage broker. Ask for the federal NMLS of their lender.

    This sounds really shady. Did they give you an estimate of your payments and did that number sound acceptable? (what if it’s a 5 year arm at 12% interest with 20% down?)


     I don’t know what the highest offer is. And I’m so sorry but I mistyped. The counter he claimed was 1.225, so 25k over what they want us to offer in the first place. 

    And the offer is from the home loans mortgage company who works with them. I have no idea what the internet rate is or any details about the loan we just got a pre approval letter with the amount. When I asked multiple times they said they needed a signed offer to present it to the seller for seller financing and then it would be discussed then. 

    And exactly what I explained to my friend. What if the internet rate is 20%?? Which is why I’m wondering what happens with a short loan contingency. What happens if we don’t agree in that time frame and the seller themself is the one financing and giving the terms. I’m very curious.

  • Theresa HarrisPro Member
    Member since 2019 · 15k+ posts · 11k+ votes
    2y

    If you aren't comfortable paying what the agent is wanting you to pay, simply tell them no and then hang up the phone.

  • Russell BrazilBusiness Member
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    Real Estate Agent · Washington, D.C. · Member since 2012 · 17k+ posts · 30k+ votes
    2y
    Quote from @Amanda Kwem:
    Quote from @Russell Brazil:

    If they are your agent, they will not make any more or less money if you buy this house. They will make X dollars from selling this house, then they will make Y dollars from whatever house you buy, whether it’s this one or another one. It is a zero sum game when one of your own buyers buys one of your listings.

    They are the sellers agent who decided to represent us as buyers for this particular house. Met them at listing. If we don’t go with this house then we may or may not move forward with them. But noted, thankyou 

     Then nothing was undisclosed. It would be obvious to anyone that the agent hosting the open house is the sellers agent. 

  • Member since 2023 · 24 posts · 1 vote
    2y
    Quote from @Russell Brazil:
    Quote from @Amanda Kwem:
    Quote from @Russell Brazil:

    If they are your agent, they will not make any more or less money if you buy this house. They will make X dollars from selling this house, then they will make Y dollars from whatever house you buy, whether it’s this one or another one. It is a zero sum game when one of your own buyers buys one of your listings.

    They are the sellers agent who decided to represent us as buyers for this particular house. Met them at listing. If we don’t go with this house then we may or may not move forward with them. But noted, thankyou 

     Then nothing was undisclosed. It would be obvious to anyone that the agent hosting the open house is the sellers agent. 

    Perhaps? I wasn’t there initially and did not know that it was the listing agent. My friend saw the house days before me and again we are first time buyers and aren’t too savvy with these things. Additionally 2 separate people were in our text thread and one of them said they were independent when I asked  then the other said they were co-agents then after more discussion they said they used to work together but co-listed. So a lot of confusion for me personally 

  • Member since 2023 · 24 posts · 1 vote
    2y
    Quote from @Theresa Harris:

    If you aren't comfortable paying what the agent is wanting you to pay, simply tell them no and then hang up the phone.


     Personally don’t plan on moving forward. Just wondering what the motivation or benefit would be to get us to sign it if there are “other offers” and if the “counter offer” is 25k more than what I’m not even willing to pay in the first place. 

  • Investor · Greenville, SC · Member since 2016 · 5k+ posts · 13k+ votes
    2y

    Forget everything that happened above.  You and your agent should determine the value of the home using comps provided by your agent.  That value will determine your offer price.  Your agent and your lender should provide clarity on the amount of financing you are qualified for and your loan terms.  Whether your agent is your buyers agent or the sellers agent is irrelevant to these statements...either should provide the items listed here.  If not, I recommend getting your own agent that will provide these standard items.  Or, be very versed in market values, your criteria, and your loan qualifications and work directly with the sellers agent because they don't matter because you know everything already and all you need them to do is present your offer.

  • Member since 2023 · 24 posts · 1 vote
    2y
    Quote from @Mike Dymski:

    Forget everything that happened above.  You and your agent should determine the value of the home using comps provided by your agent.  That value will determine your offer price.  Your agent and your lender should provide clarity on the amount of financing you are qualified for and your loan terms.  Whether your agent is your buyers agent or the sellers agent is irrelevant to these statements...either should provide the items listed here.  If not, I recommend getting your own agent that will provide these standard items.  Or, be very versed in market values, your criteria, and your loan qualifications and work directly with the sellers agent because they don't matter because you know everything already and all you need them to do is present your offer.


     I agree, perhaps all of this is being averted because offers were due yesterday. I explained that while I like the house it seems I’ve missed the ride but they’re insisting while also saying time has run out (but also they’ll give us an extra day) and it just seems like we’re being rushed into signing. Just curious about the whole matter. Comps would be great as m sure it will smell for over a mil

  • Theresa HarrisPro Member
    Member since 2019 · 15k+ posts · 11k+ votes
    2y
    Quote from @Amanda Kwem:
    Quote from @Theresa Harris:

    If you aren't comfortable paying what the agent is wanting you to pay, simply tell them no and then hang up the phone.


     Personally don’t plan on moving forward. Just wondering what the motivation or benefit would be to get us to sign it if there are “other offers” and if the “counter offer” is 25k more than what I’m not even willing to pay in the first place. 


     My guess is there are no other offers or they are trying to get the other offer to go higher.  It is greed on the part of the realtor.

  • Investor · Las Vegas, NV · Member since 2013 · 8k+ posts · 10k+ votes
    2y

    If they “have an offer for 1.25M” why would they tell you to offer $25k less?

    Why would you care what terms the seller is offering if you already have an approval from a real mortgage company, the terms will probably be worse. 

    If this was part of a movie I would say they were partners with the seller and helping him sell for more than it’s worth by offering seller financing.

    Look at the sales history see if it’s a flip, decide if it’s your dream home, if so decide what it’s worth to you, it doesn’t matter what others are offering. They might be planning to house hack or do STRs and they can pay more than you.  If it’s not your dream home I’d just move on and see what it sells for eventually. You can always offer less if it doesn’t go pending in a week. 

    I REALLY do like the deadline that isn’t a deadline and being told to offer $200k over list and $25k less than another offer. 

  • Member since 2023 · 24 posts · 1 vote
    2y
    Quote from @Bill B.:

    If they “have an offer for 1.25M” why would they tell you to offer $25k less?

    Why would you care what terms the seller is offering if you already have an approval from a real mortgage company, the terms will probably be worse. 

    If this was part of a movie I would say they were partners with the seller and helping him sell for more than it’s worth by offering seller financing.

    Look at the sales history see if it’s a flip, decide if it’s your dream home, if so decide what it’s worth to you, it doesn’t matter what others are offering. They might be planning to house hack or do STRs and they can pay more than you.  If it’s not your dream home I’d just move on and see what it sells for eventually. You can always offer less if it doesn’t go pending in a week. 

    I REALLY do like the deadline that isn’t a deadline and being told to offer $200k over list and $25k less than another offer. 


     I don’t know what the other offer amounts are only that they claim there are other offers. They are firm on US offering 1.2 million with the contract reflecting that amount despite me personally saying that’s not what I’d be willing to pay. They say they need that amount to be competitive. Again theyd know things we wouldn’t. 

    After our back and forth they said the counter that will be coming out soon is 1.225 not 1.125, that was a typo I will try and edit that. So 25k over the price they told us would be competitive.

    the approval came from THEM/the mortgage company that they work with. This whole time they’ve been selling us on seller financing and how it’s such a rare opportunity and how they can convince the seller finance and they’ll beable to get us no money down at that. It has been exclusively talked about so it’s there’s an understanding that that is apparently “desirable”. 

    The pre approval from the mortgage company came today for the purchase amount as they were trying to get us to sign by today. As I explained in another comment I sent over very minimal info about my finances/not many documents however since it’s 3 of us on 1 house maybe that’s enough idk? Would a seller fianance AND accept no money down?


    I simply have a feeling that they would not even be willing to write an offer for less than 1.2 mil. I’ll reiterate I have no idea what the other offers are, that’s not disclosed only that they really want us to offer 1.2 million and after a brief argument they claimed that the counter that will come out is 1.225 mil 

  • Member since 2023 · 24 posts · 1 vote
    2y
    Quote from @Bill B.:

    If they “have an offer for 1.25M” why would they tell you to offer $25k less?

    Why would you care what terms the seller is offering if you already have an approval from a real mortgage company, the terms will probably be worse. 

    If this was part of a movie I would say they were partners with the seller and helping him sell for more than it’s worth by offering seller financing.

    Look at the sales history see if it’s a flip, decide if it’s your dream home, if so decide what it’s worth to you, it doesn’t matter what others are offering. They might be planning to house hack or do STRs and they can pay more than you.  If it’s not your dream home I’d just move on and see what it sells for eventually. You can always offer less if it doesn’t go pending in a week. 

    I REALLY do like the deadline that isn’t a deadline and being told to offer $200k over list and $25k less than another offer. 

    The bolded part seems plausible to me. Again in this particular area homes do go above 1 million but everything just seems off to me. Esp the insistence when there is supposedly other offers.

    Anyhow will do but doubt it’s a flip. They told me the owner is a retired professor and firm on the price.

  • Russell BrazilBusiness Member
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    Real Estate Agent · Washington, D.C. · Member since 2012 · 17k+ posts · 30k+ votes
    2y
    Quote from @Amanda Kwem:
    Quote from @Bill B.:

    If they “have an offer for 1.25M” why would they tell you to offer $25k less?

    Why would you care what terms the seller is offering if you already have an approval from a real mortgage company, the terms will probably be worse. 

    If this was part of a movie I would say they were partners with the seller and helping him sell for more than it’s worth by offering seller financing.

    Look at the sales history see if it’s a flip, decide if it’s your dream home, if so decide what it’s worth to you, it doesn’t matter what others are offering. They might be planning to house hack or do STRs and they can pay more than you.  If it’s not your dream home I’d just move on and see what it sells for eventually. You can always offer less if it doesn’t go pending in a week. 

    I REALLY do like the deadline that isn’t a deadline and being told to offer $200k over list and $25k less than another offer. 


     I don’t know what the other offer amounts are only that they claim there are other offers. They are firm on US offering 1.2 million with the contract reflecting that amount despite me personally saying that’s not what I’d be willing to pay. They say they need that amount to be competitive. Again theyd know things we wouldn’t. 

    After our back and forth they said the counter that will be coming out soon is 1.225 not 1.125, that was a typo I will try and edit that. So 25k over the price they told us would be competitive.

    the approval came from THEM/the mortgage company that they work with. This whole time they’ve been selling us on seller financing and how it’s such a rare opportunity and how they can convince the seller finance and they’ll beable to get us no money down at that. It has been exclusively talked about so it’s there’s an understanding that that is apparently “desirable”. 

    The pre approval from the mortgage company came today for the purchase amount as they were trying to get us to sign by today. As I explained in another comment I sent over very minimal info about my finances/not many documents however since it’s 3 of us on 1 house maybe that’s enough idk? Would a seller fianance AND accept no money down?


    I simply have a feeling that they would not even be willing to write an offer for less than 1.2 mil. I’ll reiterate I have no idea what the other offers are, that’s not disclosed only that they really want us to offer 1.2 million and after a brief argument they claimed that the counter that will come out is 1.225 mil 


     Well you have your answer, if you want to pay $1,225,000 then buy the house. If you dont, then let someone else buy it. It's that simple.

  • Member since 2023 · 24 posts · 1 vote
    2y
    Quote from @Russell Brazil:
    Quote from @Amanda Kwem:
    Quote from @Bill B.:

    If they “have an offer for 1.25M” why would they tell you to offer $25k less?

    Why would you care what terms the seller is offering if you already have an approval from a real mortgage company, the terms will probably be worse. 

    If this was part of a movie I would say they were partners with the seller and helping him sell for more than it’s worth by offering seller financing.

    Look at the sales history see if it’s a flip, decide if it’s your dream home, if so decide what it’s worth to you, it doesn’t matter what others are offering. They might be planning to house hack or do STRs and they can pay more than you.  If it’s not your dream home I’d just move on and see what it sells for eventually. You can always offer less if it doesn’t go pending in a week. 

    I REALLY do like the deadline that isn’t a deadline and being told to offer $200k over list and $25k less than another offer. 


     I don’t know what the other offer amounts are only that they claim there are other offers. They are firm on US offering 1.2 million with the contract reflecting that amount despite me personally saying that’s not what I’d be willing to pay. They say they need that amount to be competitive. Again theyd know things we wouldn’t. 

    After our back and forth they said the counter that will be coming out soon is 1.225 not 1.125, that was a typo I will try and edit that. So 25k over the price they told us would be competitive.

    the approval came from THEM/the mortgage company that they work with. This whole time they’ve been selling us on seller financing and how it’s such a rare opportunity and how they can convince the seller finance and they’ll beable to get us no money down at that. It has been exclusively talked about so it’s there’s an understanding that that is apparently “desirable”. 

    The pre approval from the mortgage company came today for the purchase amount as they were trying to get us to sign by today. As I explained in another comment I sent over very minimal info about my finances/not many documents however since it’s 3 of us on 1 house maybe that’s enough idk? Would a seller fianance AND accept no money down?


    I simply have a feeling that they would not even be willing to write an offer for less than 1.2 mil. I’ll reiterate I have no idea what the other offers are, that’s not disclosed only that they really want us to offer 1.2 million and after a brief argument they claimed that the counter that will come out is 1.225 mil 


     Well you have your answer, if you want to pay $1,225,000 then buy the house. If you dont, then let someone else buy it. It's that simple.

    What exactly is the answer? I’ve already reiterated that I’m not willing to pay 1.225 on a 2 bedroom house. The reasoning/motivation and end game is what I seek to understand. 

     
    I do appreciate your input though!

  • Investor · Las Vegas, NV · Member since 2013 · 8k+ posts · 10k+ votes
    2y

    Can you post the mls #/address so we can all follow along?

  • Russell BrazilBusiness Member
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    Real Estate Agent · Washington, D.C. · Member since 2012 · 17k+ posts · 30k+ votes
    2y
    Quote from @Amanda Kwem:
    Quote from @Russell Brazil:
    Quote from @Amanda Kwem:
    Quote from @Bill B.:

    If they “have an offer for 1.25M” why would they tell you to offer $25k less?

    Why would you care what terms the seller is offering if you already have an approval from a real mortgage company, the terms will probably be worse. 

    If this was part of a movie I would say they were partners with the seller and helping him sell for more than it’s worth by offering seller financing.

    Look at the sales history see if it’s a flip, decide if it’s your dream home, if so decide what it’s worth to you, it doesn’t matter what others are offering. They might be planning to house hack or do STRs and they can pay more than you.  If it’s not your dream home I’d just move on and see what it sells for eventually. You can always offer less if it doesn’t go pending in a week. 

    I REALLY do like the deadline that isn’t a deadline and being told to offer $200k over list and $25k less than another offer. 


     I don’t know what the other offer amounts are only that they claim there are other offers. They are firm on US offering 1.2 million with the contract reflecting that amount despite me personally saying that’s not what I’d be willing to pay. They say they need that amount to be competitive. Again theyd know things we wouldn’t. 

    After our back and forth they said the counter that will be coming out soon is 1.225 not 1.125, that was a typo I will try and edit that. So 25k over the price they told us would be competitive.

    the approval came from THEM/the mortgage company that they work with. This whole time they’ve been selling us on seller financing and how it’s such a rare opportunity and how they can convince the seller finance and they’ll beable to get us no money down at that. It has been exclusively talked about so it’s there’s an understanding that that is apparently “desirable”. 

    The pre approval from the mortgage company came today for the purchase amount as they were trying to get us to sign by today. As I explained in another comment I sent over very minimal info about my finances/not many documents however since it’s 3 of us on 1 house maybe that’s enough idk? Would a seller fianance AND accept no money down?


    I simply have a feeling that they would not even be willing to write an offer for less than 1.2 mil. I’ll reiterate I have no idea what the other offers are, that’s not disclosed only that they really want us to offer 1.2 million and after a brief argument they claimed that the counter that will come out is 1.225 mil 


     Well you have your answer, if you want to pay $1,225,000 then buy the house. If you dont, then let someone else buy it. It's that simple.

    What exactly is the answer? I’ve already reiterated that I’m not willing to pay 1.225 on a 2 bedroom house. The reasoning/motivation and end game is what I seek to understand. 

     
    I do appreciate your input though!

    Then you pass on it.
  • Member since 2019 · 7k+ posts · 4k+ votes
    2y
    Quote from @Amanda Kwem:

    I'd like your opinion on a matter.  Myself and 2 of my business partners/friends are first time home buyers looking to purchase in a hot market in CA.  There is a house we like and offers were due yesterday.  List price is 998k but agent is insisting and wrote paperwork for us to sign for a purchase price of 1.2 million.  They said they need this price to be "competitive, though i personally don't agree with offering that much over asking.  I was at work yesterday and I was being pressured to sign the contract as offers were due yesterday and I randomly asked if they were also representing the seller and they said yes.  It's 2 co-agents and I was pretty upset and said that should have been disclosed.  Though offers were due yesterday they have extended it for us and are doing everything in their power to get us to sign.  They've promised my friend (who loves the house and isn't smart financially imo) that they can get us seller financing with no money down (with either a program or getting the seller to agree) but everything seems fishy to me.  In the contract they were trying to get us to rush to sign all contingencies were waived except a 7 loan contingency.  I of course pointed this out.  They said they have other offers, some above asking (which I don't deny given the market and us being in the Bay Area).  My questions are

    1.  Are they simply trying to get us to buy so they get double commission

    2. If there is a loan contingency but we use seller financing, what happens if we don't agree  to the terms of the presented loan? Will we be out of any money

    3. dual agency seems like a terrible idea, pros and cons

    4. Offers were due yesterday but they're still going back and forth with me and editing the contract in an attempt for us to comply. why?  There has to be other offers that are above asking with bigger downpayments

    5. Does seller financing benefit the seller?  Taxes? getting the house back if anything goes wrong? 


    I asked about the terms of seller financing but they said we'd be to sign an offer to present a written offer to the seller first who knows nothing about seller financing but they are confident that they can convince them.  Is that correct?  The loan contingency is 7 days.  What happens if this isn't figured out in 7 days of signing? Do I lose the earnest money?  

    Personally this has red flag all over it and I won't be rushed into signing anything  We ended up viewing the house 2 days before offers were due.  What are their motivations?  Anything wrong of illegal here.  This is a very simplified summary by the way there is so much more I can write.  Even after a heated text thread of me laying out all of my concerns and them saying we should pass on the house (after I pretty much told them I don't want the house), they still came back saying they added a loan and appraisal contingency and if we are okay to sign. WHY?


     well without dual agent complexity, this is the behavior of 88.88% of bay area realtor anyway.

    It's almost like Mafia Cartel in disguise here, mostly bad actors LOL
    I have been treated worse and give 'em my middle finger

  • Member since 2019 · 7k+ posts · 4k+ votes
    2y
    Quote from @Amanda Kwem:
    Quote from @Bill B.:

    If they “have an offer for 1.25M” why would they tell you to offer $25k less?

    Why would you care what terms the seller is offering if you already have an approval from a real mortgage company, the terms will probably be worse. 

    If this was part of a movie I would say they were partners with the seller and helping him sell for more than it’s worth by offering seller financing.

    Look at the sales history see if it’s a flip, decide if it’s your dream home, if so decide what it’s worth to you, it doesn’t matter what others are offering. They might be planning to house hack or do STRs and they can pay more than you.  If it’s not your dream home I’d just move on and see what it sells for eventually. You can always offer less if it doesn’t go pending in a week. 

    I REALLY do like the deadline that isn’t a deadline and being told to offer $200k over list and $25k less than another offer. 

    The bolded part seems plausible to me. Again in this particular area homes do go above 1 million but everything just seems off to me. Esp the insistence when there is supposedly other offers.

    Anyhow will do but doubt it’s a flip. They told me the owner is a retired professor and firm on the price.


     one million doesnt' really matter, but what is the comp ranges and PSF ranges.

    I would never never never ever buy two BR for over a mil.

    Same s*t box house 1 hour away maybe 40% cheaper LOL

  • Member since 2022 · 1k+ posts · 1k+ votes
    2y

    I could be reading this wrong but you sound too emotional about this, and that's a bad place to be when dealing with a listing agent. Get your own agent. Put an offer that you think is fair. If you want a seller contract include that too, and/or whatever price you feel its worth.  Find an agent with experience that will protect you. It's ok to lose a sale, don't get too wrapped up. There's only a billion houses out there. Location. Location. Anything else can be fixed. Good luck.

  • Member since 2023 · 24 posts · 1 vote
    2y
    Quote from @Henry T.:

    I could be reading this wrong but you sound too emotional about this, and that's a bad place to be when dealing with a listing agent. Get your own agent. Put an offer that you think is fair. If you want a seller contract include that too, and/or whatever price you feel its worth.  Find an agent with experience that will protect you. It's ok to lose a sale, don't get too wrapped up. There's only a billion houses out there. Location. Location. Anything else can be fixed. Good luck.


     What? Haha. I think out of everyone in this situation I’m the one that’s not being emotional. My friend who really wants the house actually signed the offer which was for 200k over asking, bc “that’s what’s competitive” and that waived all contingencies except a 7 day loan contingency with the promise of seller financing with terms that they couldn’t disclose “yet” but they know they can convince the seller. Personally that’s what I call emotional and idiotic. Her signature and the offer won’t go through bc my other friend and myself won’t sign. 

    I like the house but already know I’m not willing to spend 1.2 m on a 2b/2b so trust me the deal is already done lol. I’m just trying to figure out what the insistence rush and//or tactics were all about in order to be well versed for the future. 

    Yes absolutely going forward we’ll need our own exclusive agent (I’ve had other agents in the past but this was just an all around rush scenario)…I just think in the context of the offers we’re due by this date it’s too late for that…which is okay for me! Perhaps not for my friend but she’ll live. I know for a fact these guys wouldn’t write for lower even if we asked as I’ve explained that that’s too much multiple times. 

  • Member since 2023 · 24 posts · 1 vote
    2y
    Quote from @Carlos Ptriawan:
    Quote from @Amanda Kwem:
    Quote from @Bill B.:

    If they “have an offer for 1.25M” why would they tell you to offer $25k less?

    Why would you care what terms the seller is offering if you already have an approval from a real mortgage company, the terms will probably be worse. 

    If this was part of a movie I would say they were partners with the seller and helping him sell for more than it’s worth by offering seller financing.

    Look at the sales history see if it’s a flip, decide if it’s your dream home, if so decide what it’s worth to you, it doesn’t matter what others are offering. They might be planning to house hack or do STRs and they can pay more than you.  If it’s not your dream home I’d just move on and see what it sells for eventually. You can always offer less if it doesn’t go pending in a week. 

    I REALLY do like the deadline that isn’t a deadline and being told to offer $200k over list and $25k less than another offer. 

    The bolded part seems plausible to me. Again in this particular area homes do go above 1 million but everything just seems off to me. Esp the insistence when there is supposedly other offers.

    Anyhow will do but doubt it’s a flip. They told me the owner is a retired professor and firm on the price.


     one million doesnt' really matter, but what is the comp ranges and PSF ranges.

    I would never never never ever buy two BR for over a mil.

    Same s*t box house 1 hour away maybe 40% cheaper LOL


     I’ll need to look at comps. During this time I briefly looked at what the prices for homes in the area are and they were all for 1-2 million. All the 2 million ones were 4 bedrooms or so. But it seems this one was on the lower range personally (not necessarily for a 2b though). 

    And yes that’s true lol. This city is desirable though. 

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