Revise ban rules/SUSPENDED? WHY NOT

[Emmett Foster]

In order to send a message, you must first be colleagues with someone. Which means you send a colleague request, and they accept. Then you can message. You can also send a message with the colleague request, but only once. I didn't know there is a limit to colleagues request with messages. Please help.. I need access to my emails. I think there is a easy solution rather and banned members totally. Maybe a temporary ban for 7 days then 30 days and lastly a life time banned.. This is crazy. I never heard of a forum that automatically does this.  What  are your thoughts. I didn't get  a warning. It would seem like BP  would consider a gradually disabling your inbox thus a member  will clearly get them message of why they were suspended thus this can avoid them from being banned