Getting my wife on board

[Robert Wright]

My wife is of the Dave Ramsey thinking and continually states that debt is dumb and wanting to borrow money to purchase real estate is somehow immoral. I planned to BRRRR some properties since our primary residence is almost paid off. Her family grew up poor so she is very controlling of the money. I am the only income source in the family and she is a stay at home mom. I have tried to get her to read various books but she says I'm just being greedy and refuses to try to see my point of view. What did it take for any of you to get your spouse on board?