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Michael Lowe
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Why are my friends so against me investing in Real estate?!

Michael Lowe
  • Lender
  • Topeka, KS
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I’m just starting out.

I’ve been reading like crazy, analyzing deals CONSTANTLY, driving neighborhoods, talking with my real estate agent, meeting with investors currently in my market (and other markets).

But when I talk to my friends and family about investing in Real Estate, it’s always negative and “you can’t” or “you shouldn’t”.

What gives? Why are my friends and family members so against me investing in real estate?!

Any ideas?

And, how do I win them over?

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Curt Davis
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Curt Davis
  • Flipper/Rehabber
  • Memphis, TN
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They are afraid that you might actually prove them wrong and become successful. They will be watching you even closer so that if you fail or something goes wrong or sadly quit, they will be there to pile on even more negativity. Do not let them steal your dream. Starting out you should probably not let them in on what you are really doing bc when they see your success you won't have to say anything and it will shut them up!!

Good luck!! 

  • Curt Davis

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