The Fear of the Unknown

[Spencer Dalberth]

As I sit here planning my goals for the week I am struck with an overwhelming sense of fear, my initial thought is "Am I even capable of pulling this off?". A massive feeling of doubt starts to consume me. I know if I am aware of the emotion, but don't let it control me that it'll pass and is usually followed by with a burst of motivation. Yet I keep coming across this feeling every now and then. Who experiences this and how do you cope?

I am in the works of starting my own REI company here in Orlando, FL. I want to begin with wholesaling. I've reached out to some friends that are agents, they meet up with me to teach me some of the basics of real estate, and give me some friendly advice, but that's about it. Maybe they don't have much more to offer as far as investing goes or they're just too busy with their own lives? I am looking forward to attending the BP and CFREI meetup to actually get to meet some people with similar goals and interests, but for now I feel almost lost and that fear of the unknown keeps creeping up on me when I least expect it.

Either way, I am going to keep trucking along, but I wanted to start up a possible discussion with the community to at least have a chance to talk to people going through something similar or people that have gone through it and came out on top.

[Nick Calamia]

Spencer, I know exactly how you feel! Starting off can be really overwhelming especially since there are so many avenues to venture off to in Real Estate Investing. I was in the same boat but once I figured out what I exactly wanted to start with (buy and holds) I made a plan of action to get started. I acquired my first property on my own without telling any of my friends or family members thinking I would get criticized. Once I finally revealed to them I have been slowly starting my portfolio I actually got the complete opposite reaction. I received a bunch of support but more surprisingly INTEREST in joining me and asking me how I did it. Find people that are like minded and/or support you no matter good or bad. Like many other members have said on here, once you start its hard to stop! You will always have doubts starting off and even when succeeding, but no other feeling is worse than the feeling of regret from not even trying!