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Partnering up with a friend
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Re "apply for the mortgage together": as a beginner, you are confusing terminology a bit here, so let's break it down into the various parts.
People apply for a "loan secured by real estate", and refer to that as "applying for a mortgage", but that is not following the strictest definitions of the terms.
A "loan secured by real estate" consists of two components: a promissory note, and a security instrument that pledges the real estate as collateral to secure the loan. A mortgage in the strictest sense of that word is just the latter of these - a security instrument that pledges the real estate as collateral for the loan. And another misconception - people commonly think that lenders give mortgages, when in reality lenders give the loan to the borrower and the borrowers (actually owners of the real estate) give the mortgage to the lender; yes, that is how the terms are really defined.
So let's consider a pertinent example. A couple of years ago I sold a house to a married couple, but their intent was for only the man to be named on the loan. So their agent wrote up an addendum to the basic agreement stating that only the man will be signing the mortgage; I refused to sign that! Agent asked why, I said all owners have to sign the mortgage, the lender won't give a loan if only one of the co-owners signs the mortgage. So agent calls lender, and of course I am right (no surprise to me), and then they do an addendum where only the man signs the loan application, but both of the couple sign the mortgage. The lender had no problem with this, and I did agree to sign an addendum worded more like that.
This example is similar to what @Kevin Means seems to be seeking; only one of the co-owners will sign the loan application, but both will have to sign the mortgage, to give the lender a proper mortgage.
As @Chris K. was alluding to, there are different kinds of arrangements to "partner". They can be a joint venture, there can be a general partnership, there can be a limited partnership, there can be an LLC, and some others. This is the sort of thing where both partners should sit down together with an attorney and CPA together, spelling out what they wish to accomplish, and let the pros give pluses and minuses to each possible approach so the partners can make an informed decision. The plan to borrow is something to also include in the discussions.