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Updated about 7 years ago on . Most recent reply
Going To My First Local REIA Meeting Any Advice?
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It is amazing how quickly you will be welcomed into the group. My experience went like this:
1st meeting: total wallflower to the point of extreme awkwardness.
2nd meeting: seeing some of the same faces gives you the confidence to introduce yourself. Be upfront about being a newbie, they can smell a BS’r a mile away.
3rd meeting: more integration. Prepare some specific questions for those you have discovered are playing in the space you want to play in.
4th meeting: prepare some business cards with your contact info, and what you’re interested. You’re ready to market yourself and find partners and mentors.
Good luck! Make sure to go back for a second meeting even if the first one is a disaster.