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How to (Actually) pull the trigger
So, I have read and read and read... I've listened to the audio books and podcasts. Here is where I sit... I am almost to the point where I feel less ready then I was when I first started and was "ready" to jump in head first.
Being from a construction background, I want to get into fix and flips but the more I learn the more I find I am not in a position financially to even take the first step and that is such a demoralizing place to be. I am incredibly afraid to spend 5k to 10k on marketing to trying and locate my first deal when I am not all that well equipped to land that deal should one present itself.
Spotting value is something I am naturally good at which is a bonus. This has been true my whole life in almost every walk in life. The house I live in now was bout 3 years ago and after about 4 months of ownership it went up in value 35% and is currently worth more than double what I paid. This eye for value is something I have always been good at but I dont even know where to START looking.
Here is the endless cycle I have myself in - How do I find a deal? How do I fund the deal? Do I find a deal that try to fund it? Do I get funding and find a deal that fits the funding? Which do I do first?
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Originally posted by @Tyler Bardwell:
So, I have read and read and read... I've listened to the audio books and podcasts. Here is where I sit... I am almost to the point where I feel less ready then I was when I first started and was "ready" to jump in head first.
Being from a construction background, I want to get into fix and flips but the more I learn the more I find I am not in a position financially to even take the first step and that is such a demoralizing place to be. I am incredibly afraid to spend 5k to 10k on marketing to trying and locate my first deal when I am not all that well equipped to land that deal should one present itself.
Spotting value is something I am naturally good at which is a bonus. This has been true my whole life in almost every walk in life. The house I live in now was bout 3 years ago and after about 4 months of ownership it went up in value 35% and is currently worth more than double what I paid. This eye for value is something I have always been good at but I dont even know where to START looking.
Here is the endless cycle I have myself in - How do I find a deal? How do I fund the deal? Do I find a deal that try to fund it? Do I get funding and find a deal that fits the funding? Which do I do first?
I think Brandon Turner said on one of the Podcasts...Start where you stand, in your own back yard. Who do you know? Do they have houses? Do they have money? Have you asked them? Who do they know? You may surprise yourself with a millionaire next door.
I was looking for a duplex to buy so I could house hack for free living. A fantastic tactic. When I called my old agent to set up a viewing on a house I found, she told me she was now a mortgage broker and referred me to another agent. I met with the agent, and after hearing me describe what I was looking for, he turned me down to be his client, and offered me a partnership hunting houses.
On a trip home to see my family, I came across some vacant houses next door to my Dad. I asked my Dad what the deal was with them and he told me they were for sale. He said that he could not get a partner or a bank to back him on buying them. He didn't know the right words to say. he didn't think of me as a partner either, in his pursuit. When I asked the questions, we connected the dots. I knew how to get the money, and he knows how to do the work.
When Josh and Brandon ask at the end of every episode..."what is the difference between people who are successful, and those who quit, fail or never get started?" the only answer is persistence. turn over every stone you can find until a situation needs you, just exactly as you are. That is where you start. Nobody can answer that question for you. It is your own unique story.
Last part: This industry is a service based industry. We are all here to solve someone's problem. I urge you to first consider what you have to offer, to solve someone's problem. Is it money? talent? skills? inventory? energy? When you figure that piece out, then go find the person who is looking for you. Every time you find an opportunity, ask who-needs-what here? And then, provide it.
as a side note...the slowest that things will ever be is when you are at the start of this thing. Don't quit.
Cheers!