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Estate Sale - Should I buy myself?
Hi,
I am not a real estate investor and the extent of my real estate experience is owning my own primary residence for which I have a mortgage. I have a unique situation where a long time family friend inherited a single family house in Jersey City from her deceased mother. She herself is now in a nursing home and will not be living in the house. The house is going to be sold as part of settling the estate with the proceeds going to the nursing home to pay for her care. The house would have gone to me when she passed away as she had no other relatives. My primary concern is for her care, but she is upset that now the proceeds from her mother’s house will go to the nursing home without me getting anything. One option I am trying to decide on is whether or not I should purchase the house myself as an investment property with the intention of either renting it out or fixing it up and selling it. It is a single family home and sits on an irregular sized lot so I don’t believe it can be knocked down and rebuilt, but would definitely need to be renovated. Also maybe turning it into a two family home to maximize rental income is an idea. Just wondering since I am new to this if I would be taking on more than I can chew and what the process/options might look like. Obviously my own financial situation/financing would be a big factor, but mainly looking for some perspective in terms of real estate opportunity here. Any thoughts are appreciated! Thank you.
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I'd probably stay out of it. Even if you first learned enough about owning and operating a rental (out of area?) to protect yourself, this will still be under the 'arms length ' microscope.
This should be a lesson in wealth transfer. The informed dribble out our wealth to our children when they need it most- match earnings when they're young in a Roth, then help at major milestones up to their mid to late 30s.
Then generation skip the houses and big stuff.
Inheritors in their senior years are not benefitted. $5000 well placed in your 20s is worth infinitely more than anything you get when you're 70.