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How to help my 17 year old son get started in real estate?
How to help my 17 year old son get started in real estate?
Let me start off by saying that I have personally been doing real estate for over 20 years andI realize a lot of people are going to say “ tell him to go to the Local real estate clubs.” With all due respect I have went to so many real estate clubs over the years and most are only a way for the sponsors and the owner of the club to promote themselves.
I have read and listened to so many books over the years that it’s not funny. Most of the stuff is generic where the people actually know less than what I know, but they are good at writing or maybe they have a good editor. So telling him to go listen to a ton of self promoting podcast or go read a bunch of generic books would not be helpful either in my opinion.
He’s helped work on multiple house projects that I was rehabbing. He’s been with me on multiple occasions when I contracted a house in person with the seller. He understands a lot about creative finance.
Really what I am trying to figure out is how do I help him get started without simply handing him houses or paying for his marketing, helping him close deals and then letting him keep the profit. If I simply just handed him money or pay for all of his marketing when he is in the same area as me I don’t see how that would be teaching him to be responsible. I do want to help him I’m just at a loss at how to proceed.
Thanks so much for being patient with my ramble above.
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Buy a house for him to live in, but charge him rent to live in it. Take all of the "cashflow" and set it aside for him. In a few years gift that money to him as a down payment for his own first property that he can house hack. You get a rental with a guaranteed tenant for a few years, he gets a start for his future and doesn't even know it