But the legal framework allows for the sale of securities under an exemption to the registration requirement so long as the securities aren’t sold publicly, which by-and-large means “aren’t advertised”.  

My question is, if they aren’t out by the time I get there on Saturday or have stuff there still, what can I do within my and their legal rights?

https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/chinese-dr...Read this , all you need to know

As a seller - i sent a demand letter to the title company for the Earnest Money and the buyer objected to that saying that they were within the 25 days period and that the seller doesn't have any legal grounds to not release the Earnest money.The title company contacted my agent and told her to ask me what I plan to do next?

What is your “trusted” friend stating you are doing contrary to legal requirements?

Unfortunately, I was involved in an auto accident late last year which is forcing me to be medically seperated from the military and I will likely relocate to Texas near family. 

A lot of forum members are very knowledgeable in their respective fields related to real estate investing, whether that is real estate sales, wholesaling, flipping, rentals, lending, self-directed IRA and Solo 401k investing, or tax and legal guidance.

Looking to bird dog but not sure if it is legal or not

You should definitely check with an attorney in your state to see if what you are doing is legal or not.

Legally, that's feasible, right?