Consider the following outline for your email, letter or phone call.

Might be a good place to start.So the minimum stay thing is an interesting topic.

This is actually a topic that has been covered here on the forums many times.  

This will help people connect with you after determining how their goals, services and resources align with yours.2. use the 'search' function to find topics, members and areas of interest.

Flaming is directly insulting another member, flame-baiting is making a comment with the intention of getting a flame as a response, and trolling involves starting arguments or upsetting people by posting inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages with the intent of provoking readers into an emotional response or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion.As far as "cancel folks not cool", some people in the forums sometimes get the impression that it is a democracy here, where you can say anything you want and it has equal value as something someone else says.

Look for meet ups in your area (virtual), attend free webinars, start reading as much as possible on any and all topics related to investing and real estate.

So no tangible benefit there.The one exception I would outline is if you want to pool money with someone else and invest together.

People in the alternative news, natural health fields are already aware that they're being throttled, and some of the content creators I follow have been deplatformed from IG and others for simply posting on "controversial" topics or linking to CDC data.I think the "Govopoly" as famous trader Ed Seykota calls it is more like a cancer than the duckweed he compares it to. 

But I have to warn you about the sadness inherent in the road you are about to embark on, and give you one piece of advice.A lot of people have very strong opinions about this topic and no one is comfortable consider that their whole financial belief system might be in grave error.If you go from being less than financially successful to most of your friends (as something like an English language teacher) to more financially successful than most of your friends (as something like a real estate investor), you're going to realize that for some of these "friends," a very big reason they felt comfortable around you was because you initially validated their mistaken financial worldview.

This is a great place to learn and network.If you are looking to connect with other members near you, or want to learn from people in a specific area you’d like to invest in, or have a desire to find people interested in certain topics, you could use the search feature here: https://www.biggerpockets.com/search/users