Can anyone give me advice on finding the right lender?

So you'll need cash on hand or find a sympathetic private lender.

Desmond Alexander I haven't heard of FHA zero down but it sounds like some are advertising similar things in CA. http://www.desertsun.com/story/money/real-estate/2017/09/08/get-house-no-down-payment-one-desert-lender-says-its-possible/594674001/Basically they are combining FHA with those local downpayment assistance grants .I think those grants are usually for first time home buyers.Personally I don't know if people have zero down and no money getting into a house is a good idea .

We have been to a lender,  and shouldn't have a problem getting an FHA loan, up to 4 units.

I 'd love to refinance the property so I can remove the MIP and hopefully get the HELOC loan so I can repeat.Does anyone know any lenders here in Union or Elizabeth NJ that would be able to help me refinance?

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I don't think most hard money lenders will want a piece of this since the owners will still hold a lien.

If you are an investor in NC and know a good lender I could talk to about a redo on an investment property I would appreciate that info too.

Often the lender will hit you with a lower amortization schedule and more down to reduce the loan balance outlay.

This property was foreclosed and now the lender is selling it for