We used a conventional loan despite my military status, cause we aren't married yet and she had better credit. 

As Basit says, you should take into consideration other important factors including whether you hold a W2 employment or a REP status.

So you may have to go the TAPCO route for a while until you can get the house up to fixed status. 

For example, status updates, regular check-ins etc?

Create columns for Name, Street Address, City, State, Zip and then contact info: Last Contact, Relationship, Status, Email & Phone.IMPORTANT: do NOT ask people for THEIR business, ask for referrals!

As the admin you can create as many statuses - read whiteboards - as you need for your business.

Less headache, more money, and less marital stress.

But you may be able to talk the agent into assistant status especially as you grow in volume.

Do you have REPs status and meet the requirements for material participation?

These plans are for retirement investing only and there can be no direct or indirect benefit to you personally.The decision between IRA and 401k hinges on a lot of factors specific to your situation, employment status, funding type, investment goals, etc.