UBIT rates escalate quickly, but I personally don't stress it.

I biggest thing I can stress is to continue to take massive action.  

I get disability for post traumatic stress disorder related to my service in Iraq.  

Let's say you put your goals on paper (for ex: I want to make 60K this year as a wholesaler), and you work out the numbers (that means 5K per month, which means ## deals per month, which... when I back it out... goes to ## phone calls) then you don't have to stress when someone tells you "no" because you know you're hitting your numbers and the next "yes" deal is right around the corner.Do you know which aspect of investing (wholesaling, rehabbing, etc) you want to focus on right now?

Its a liability guaranteed to create losses to you along with wasted time and stress...

She now has about 250K and we have a lot of equity in our home so I am not under a whole lot of stress.  

Congrats on your purchase, and on your upcoming wedding! 

Grinding down to the bone and stressing yourself out will just be another feat in itself IMO, but what do I know?

Get enough insurance to cover your contents but not the other unit's contents and make sure to stress to the renter that they really should consider renters insurance to cover their belongings because your insurance policy does not. 

I could see he was stressed all the time.