3) Can my wife roll her Roth IRA into my/our SDIRA or does that have to stay in individualized accounts?

Recessionhttps://www.ocregister.com/2020/03/16/coronavirus-pushes-u-s-into-recession-california-to-be-hit-hardest-ucla-economists-say/Oilhttps://www.biggerpockets.com/blog/coronavirus-harm-real-estate-market-oil-price-warCovid-19https://www.kcra.com/article/newsom-more-than-half-of-california-projected-to-contract-covid-19/31791343#We are in a systematic designed destruction of the world economy, the FED [and all central banks in the world, follow same gameplan] is going to become the buyer and seller of last resort.

I’m planning to push through with it, and if it goes well I’ll probably consider buying my own beach property soon.

@Jack Gallow I would continue to push as you always have.

And since I purchased this home for $120,000, that means my bank will have to reduce the loan amount down to $127,400 to keep my cash back at $120K with rolling in all closing costs and prepaids.

All you can do is roll with the punches

I instructed my property managers to waive late fees and push move in dates to accommodate new tenants. 

The more granular you get during this phase, the easier it will be to roll through the stressful steps of the rehab together with harmony.Another added benefit of this is that you'll begin to see if this is destined to be a "one-off" partnership or a "rinse and repeat" partnership, which will largely be determined by whether or not the two of you see the world in the same way.

Curious what I should be pushing for vs what is expected at this point in the market.

Thank you so much for helping me get the ball rolling. 4.75% interest only payments on a rental property HELOC was a lot better than I originally thought would be possible.