It's still nice to get but the emotional payoff is not as high as the first million, first 10 million, etc.If you treat people right, learn the skills and knowledge, find your passion, and never give up that is most of the battle to success.Very few people possess all these traits together.

Even when they are needy, demanding and manipulative, I find the mental and emotional space to deal with them.

Given a reasonable asset allocation, emotionally stable personality and a decent time horizon, combination of index funds/RE will beat either index funds or RE alone, 9 times out of 10. 

The criteria you come up with will keep your emotions in control.

Whoever gets too emotional loses.

Plus there's the emotional stress of financial risk and I'm guessing you have enough on your plate :) Basically my advice is, don't screw up your life because you're in a hurry to acquire wealth.

Since they are not owner occupied it is not an emotional decision... you can either significantly improve the NOI or not.

Money is deeply emotional and tied to perceptions of family security.Your fiance has already clearly signaled to you that she needs more security in the immediate future than you do - you're both just starting from different places. 

It may be your rights that the city or state comes after next.Love this response, take the emotions out of it and get to the facts, owners rights (that dont infringe on others) should be untouched

I suggest, if you must do something with this property from some emotional attachment that you buy it and hold it, allow equity, real equity to accumulate, enjoy the cash flow, turn it over to a PM if you don't want to LL and sell it years down the road.