On the last day before the new tenants moved in, I received a fb message from a guy requesting to purchase all of the furniture.

It is actually bad.Anything with "we Buy Houses in" is good.Anything with "Home Buyers " is good.Simply works is not good.Competition starts in the Google SERPs.If a potential seller sees a list of companies and they desperately need to sell a house fast, and one of the companies is called "We Buy Houses Fast", they WILL click on that  name.Simply works, is a bad name because it doesn't tell anyone what it is you do!

Despite all the hoopla about off market deals, there are still plenty of investors that buy through agents as their main source of deals.I would just try to find an agent that is experienced with investing and also knows the market you're interested in.

One thing I'm particularly interested in is the option to finance some of the costs.

Calling vendors in the 5 markets I'm in is easier to keep straight and easier to get their attention with a local phone number. 

This is the form you give to your new tenant the day that he/she/they plan on moving in.

You won't live for "free" with a multi-family house-hack in the NYC Metro area, but if you can lower your monthly housing expense while building equity, benefiting from rising rental income (over time, rents tend to rise), tax advantages, and invaluable RE experience while living in the property that you own and have tenants in, I think it's a no-brainer.As far as location, it depends on your needs, like work commute, proximity to public transit, area amenities that are important to you, etc. 

New Jersey can be a tough market to invest in.

Depending on which re-opening phase the State will be in I might go.

I guess i should've asked a disclaimer to this post... all super helpful information regardless, but my plan was to BRRRR the multiunit.. but now i'm hearing from other people that it's really hard to refinance out of a 203k loan once the renovations are done and the renters are in.