This may be one of them.

They might very well still afford it. now if this is a single family than absolutely no.

What made you interested in investing in this type of deal?

This is an interesting post. 

My relator said we shouldn't go forward because if the city find out we turned it into a duplex the county can take some type of action on us "not sure what that means" "Also i feel like my relator has a legal obligation to tell me not to go through with this because if he said do it anyway i could possible seek legal action on him (ps I wouldn't)"..

To overcome this, you can focus on building strong relationships with potential investors by attending networking events and sharing your track record.

I'm looking forward to learning more on this platform.  

In this scenario, the builder typically constructs the property at cost and provides transparency by sharing invoices and costs from subcontractors.

How do I solve this.

I feel like we are stalled out because it is too personal and we are emotionally attached at this point.