I am looking for an investor friendly Attorney who's well versed in dealing with wholesale transactions.

You can advertise you have a contract for sale.Get a sale and purchase agreement that can be legally assigned and sold for an 1 to 2% assignment feeIf you don't want the rehabber to know how much you paid for it, find transactional funding or get on title somehow with private lender funding or find a joint venture partner to provide funding or get on title with Hardmoney lender funding so that you can buy at first and then resell it.Illegal Wholesaling only means that you're not telling the truth to the seller, and you have no intention of ever buying it, hence the reasons for all of this loud noise about illegal wholesaling.Wholesaling is legal in every state as long as you follow good business practices.

At that point you've structured the transaction so she avoids SE tax. 

I know there are other important aspects to the transactions.  

Most will have language to the effect that you cannot disclose or discuss any data or information that is deemed proprietary to the disclosing party and that which is not generally known to the public.If you want to talk numbers here on BP hypothetically, I think you would be fine since numbers are not "proprietary".

It's basically the Pygmalian Effect which is something I certainly believe in.  

There is no "Popular Guru" teaching lease-option to buy programs where the transactions will be compliant as intended meeting new accounting requirements (by everyone in business) and/or the IRS Code, they don't event touch the subject matter I'd bet on it. 

Of the 8 transactions we have done this year, all were submitted electronically by the closing attorney.

You should absolutely have an agent representing your interests in any transaction - especially if you're new to investing.

Instead I simply attended as many trainings and team meetings as possible and used the bull pen to work on my transactions and ask help from other agents.