A phobia is an "irrational fear" and I doubt he is afraid of gay people.

Don't jump too early and start connecting with other investors in the area and meet other people who have house hacked near you.

I am an active investor buying properties cheap good deals all deals must be at least 60% below market for fix N Flips any higher than that I have Zero interest it's no money in the deal.

The amount you can write off phases out if your AGI is above $100K and goes to zero once you hit $150K.If you qualify as a Real Estate Professional Status (REPS) then any passive loss can offset any active income.  

Don't they think people can add and subtract out the different fees?

I've got capital and I'm actively looking for a new property to ultimately hold as a long-term rental.

In terms of next steps in your investing, does that mean you are actively investing and looking to grow your portfolio or would this be your first?

Some people out there need it. 

This is where you will find people who can help you find your first deal and might have overage.

People see a nasty property.