So for this purchase, I'm at a loss on how to properly find and vet great local lenders.

Definitely meet local RE investors and gauge what their contractor experiences have been.

Local knowledge might be helpful, particularly when thinking about niche markets.Expert Advice: Considering the intricacy of your circumstances, consulting a financial adviser or a real estate specialist can offer tailored recommendations based on your unique objectives and position.Remember that every real estate decision should align with your long-term goals and risk tolerance.

The local CBRE multifamily broker won't take listing below roughly $10mm (if I recall my conversation from years ago).I would start by searching the MLS (assuming there is one in your market) and Loopnet for listing similar to what you are either looking to buy or sell.  

I’m looking for advice on networking locally.

I feel that I know the local residential market well and have a good grasp on purchasing solid SFHs. 

Have been considering firms like KKOS Lawyers (Mark Kohler) and Anderson Business Advisors ( Clint Coons) but would prefer a local firm. 

Phase 1 - demo of a greenhouse sitting on part of the land - site utilities and 12-unit building turkey construction budget $2,043,100.00 -- $2,177,500.00The estimated rents would be approximately $1k per unit on average for mix 1 2 & 3 bedrooms- I feel like construction is so expensive and the market doesn’t support higher rents from what I’ve researchedShould I : 1) try to partner with the local government for affordable housing loans and grants?

im more looking to make sure my calculations are as close to spot on as possible for our local market.

Affiliates with NARPM (National Association of Residential Property Managers) see if there is a local chapter in your area3.