Are you a tax professional or do you plan to hire one to help you keep some of this money?

It helps them to determine if they are wasting their time with you or not.If you show up at a different Realtors office in professional attire and ask them to show you properties they most likely won't even think about asking for proof of financing.

I have spoken to other investors and they are telling me it's time to dump her and find someone who is willing to trust me as a professional.

It is always a good idea to align yourself with a few real estate professionals in your area that understand real estate investing.

It's not about big houses, boats, planes, and cars, jewelry, fur coats, and trips around the world-- though I've had and done my share of all that-- it's about going to sleep at night knowing that if I don't wake up, my family has fond memories of me, that I was there for them while I could be, and that the last thing they have to worry about amid the trauma of losing a husband and father is money.

Great advice GoGlobe about the email lists and about the professional organization contacts.

When investing in the stock market long-term in blue chip companies, I never lose a wink of sleep.

;`(C) be completed by an appraiser who meets the competency requirements of the Uniform Standards of Professional Appraisal Practice;`(D) be wholly consistent with the appraisal standards, practices, and procedures under section 202(e) of this Act that apply to all loans insured under this Act; and`(E) comply with the requirements of subsection (g) of this section (relating to appraisal independence).`(9) DOCUMENTATION AND VERIFICATION OF INCOME- In complying with the FHA underwriting requirements under the HOPE for Homeowners Program under this section, the mortgagee under the mortgage shall document and verify the income of the mortgagor by procuring an Internal Revenue Service transcript of the income tax returns of the mortgagor for the 2 most recent years for which the filing deadline for such years has passed and by any other method, in accordance with procedures and standards that the Board or the Secretary shall establish.`(10) MORTGAGE FRAUD- The mortgagor shall not have been convicted under any provision of Federal or State law for fraud, including mortgage fraud.`(11) PRIMARY RESIDENCE- The mortgagor shall provide documentation satisfactory in the determination of the Secretary to prove that the residence covered by the mortgage to be insured under this section is occupied by the mortgagor as the primary residence of the mortgagor, and that such residence is the only residence in which the mortgagor has any present ownership interest.

When you first spoke to this woman you needed to assure her that you were a professional and that you would take care of her.

I have joined "BiggerPockets" forum to meet other real estate professionals as well as to network.I look forward to posting regularly or as my schedule permit me to.Natrelle Thomas