I get that people will open closets, cabinets, use the bathroom, etc. and we are fine with that, but is it normal, and more importantly acceptable for people to let their children do the things they did?

There are plenty of hard working low income people deserving of descent housing that do not have rock bottom credit scores.

Regarding financing (and sight distance approval), maybe having your architect make up a small model with people and cars to help sell the project to the bank.This could be costly and of course there's no way to measure the effectiveness on their decision. 

Laundry Card is my favorite since it usually means people spend more.

I'm still in the infancy stages of my REI journey. i've been attending many REI Meet ups and seminars and have been meeting some great people!

My main takeaway is GET EVERYTHING IN WRITING before you start because that’s when people are the happiest.

they have lots of experience around PM. good people.

Quote from @Laura Au: Facebook marketplace gets a lot of activity, but very few qualified renters.

I know most people don’t like to be bothered and will literally and/or figuratively slam the door in your face.

Looking it up quickly there is a bunch active in that complex.