I want to load GIS data from my county website in to a program to show proposed develop along county lines.

This less demanding W2 allowed me to work on our family’s passive income streams on nights and weekends instead of preparing for work proposals and marketing pursuits….LOL….that is precisely where the other path leads.Last year, when I retired from spending 40-50 hours per week working in the Civil Engineering industry I moved my time to 100% passive.

@Evan Parker let’s take a look at your proposal in reverse... is there something morally correct about watching homes deteriorate and neighborhoods being bad solely because people “grew up” there?

I was wondering how would you go about working out a down payment (if needed) when proposing the offer to the seller?

There isn't really another option than the one proposed to you unfortunately.

Might get some marriage proposals on the internet with that resume :) I don’t want to bring the bad news but you won’t get 5% down unless you are going to live in it as a primary residence. 

Clearly understood by ALL partiesFor your situation I would propose this to your aunt:-50/50 profit split.  

Now we're facing a variance if we rebuild in the existing footprint of the house and a likelihood they won't approve our proposal.

I have not seen the proposals yet.

Sounds like you need the advice from a local professional real estate agent who can provide you accurate values for the proposed bedroom increase.